Wedding 婚禮

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2014/01/05

Wedding


     How much time will it take to go to the other end of the rainbow?

     I drove my family to a wedding with my best wishes, the wedding was late for ten years. Ten years ago, a Chinese traditional mother objected a young man to be her daughter’s boyfriend. This mother hope the chap to study more and find a better job. There’s no wedding of course.

    The chap worked at day and studied at a night school for his Miss. Right. Ten years has 
passed, he got another diploma and a better job. The Chinese traditional mother agreed to the wedding of her daughter and the diligent young man. So I can join the beautiful wedding.



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    I know a story about another Chinese traditional mother, she objected a girl to be her son’s girlfriend. For the mother adhered a custom of Hakka. They couldn't be man and wife if their age gap is the times of three. There’s no wedding for the frustrated son.

 

    Ten years have passed, this man is still single. He’s glad to work and live, but he still aware of one thing that does there anyone suit for him.

 

    Marriage is not a happy ending, just like many tales. It’s the beginning to know myself and understand the other one deeper. No matter what will happen in the marriage, I believe it will cause us to grow up more.





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2014/01/05

婚禮


要走多久才會到彩虹的那一端?

 

我帶著祝福的心,

駕車載著家人參加一場遲來的婚禮,

一場愛情長跑十年後的婚禮。



 

十年前,

一位流著中華文化傳統血液的媽媽,

反對女兒的意中人。

這位母親盼望女兒有個好歸宿,嫁個如意郎君,

只可惜當年女兒男友的工作,

並非這位母親所青睞的,

婚事自然就談不成了。



十年前,

另一位流著中華文化傳統血液的媽媽,

反對兒子的意中人。

這位母親堅守著客家傳統婚姻禁忌,

男女年齡不得相差為三的倍數,

這婚事自然也是談不成了。

 

 

十年過去了,

這兒子仍是單身貴族,

在自得其樂的生活中,

偶爾,也留意著茫茫人海裡,

有沒有一位可以攜手共度人生。

 

 

十年過去了,第一對男女雙方都未放棄這段緣分,

小伙子為了這位他夢寐以求的女子,

白天工作,晚上進修唸書,

終於拿到進一階段的文憑,

找了這女子母親能首肯的工作。

我,才能有幸參與這場婚禮。

 


一般而言,

中華文化的幸福結局故事就到這裡結束了。

 

 

不過,

相信步入婚姻的你我都知道,

這才是認識自己與了解對方的開端,

深深去認識的開始。

 

不論結果如何,

那都是一條新的成長之路。